Thursday, November 09, 2006

Dealing with set backs and failures

Do you remember who built Taj Mahal? Oh, maybe you don't even remember what Taj Mahal is. Never mind, let's try this. What about the only apparatus on earth that can be seen from the moon? OK, never mind. That was supposed to be the Great Wall of China. Who was the architect? The ancient emporer Shi Huang Di.

Why am I asking these silly questions? No, I am not trying to tease your memory. I just want to make a point and all great things maybe forgotten one day. Nothing will last in your memory forever. And that is precisely how you should be dealing with your set backs and failures. Don't leave and set back live in your memory for too long. The shorter the better. Pick yourself up as quickly as possible. As much as you want to learn to improve your memory, you should also learn to forget.

Somehow, human being tends to forget good times and remember bad times. If you want to be happy and seccessful, you must learn to forget your set backs and remember your achievements. Let your mind be associated with success and success will come to you. And one more point, what ever good thing you have done, don't expect people to remember you forever. It will be forgotten over time. Don't get upset over it. Just move on with your life. Looking forward is more important than looking backward.

Remember, when you delete a file in your computer, you need to empty your trash bin.

Let's start new today and practise to Forget Our Set Backs and Failures...

To our happiness!