Saturday, June 26, 2010

Love YourSelf

Learn about these from somewhere but just couldn't recall the source. Here is a brief summary of what I learn:

Do I Love Me!

Miracles are possible; And I deserve all of them; I am good enough; I am enough to have them now!!!

When something good comes my way, I will take it and accept it and will not push it away!!!

Faith is most important.
Faith is the starting point of success
Faith is the basis of all miracles
Faith is the only antidote for failure
faith lets you draw on immense power

How to develop a step by step success road map

The following is a summary of developing a success road map:

1. Dream Big Dream. Work out the detailed goals year by year for the next 10 years.

2. Develop a clear directions. Write down the basic principles and final outcome.

3. See yourself as self employed (even if you are still an employee). What is holding you back? What are you excuses? Kill them. No Reasons.

4. Do what you love to do. Never "work" another day.

5. Commit to excellence. The quality of your life is determined by the depth of your commitment to excellence, no matter what your chosen field is - Vince Lombardi.

6. Work longer and harder. Plan you work hours, increase effective working hours and act on things that matters.

7. Dedicate yourself to life long learning. Select topics to learn.

8. Pay yourself first. Make a deposit saving everyday. Allocate money for your business, expense and savings.

9. Learn every details of your business. Identify the trend in your business and know what the key competence are. Creative product, identify pain/need etc.

10. Dedicate yourself to serving others. Help others get what they want.

11. Be absolutely honest with yourself and others. Almost every problem in life can be resolved by returning to your core values.

12. Determine highest priorities & concentrate on them single-minded.

13. Speed and Dependability. Identify the most procrastinating task and act on it first. Do it now.

14. Be prepared to climb from peak to peak.

15. Self discipline in all things. Chane one thing at a time. Tracking each changes.

16. Your inborn creativity. What is your most pressing problem?

17. Get around the right people.

18. Excellent care of your health. High level of health and energy.

19. Decisive & Action Oriented. What action if immediately will have the greatest positive results.

20. Failure is not an option. Persistence.

Principles of success

To be able to live happily and meaningfully, the most basic thing for anyone to do is to believe in oneself. To be successful in anything we do, there are a few principles that we can follow:

1. Be passionate about what we do and wanting it badly
2. Extend our comfort zone to accommodate what we need to do
3. Lies and Luck Don't Work
4. Install Goals (Precise)
5. Enjoy Hard Work
6. Be very very persistent
7. Expect Failure. Failure is not scary, failing to start is.
8. Believe in yourself

These 8 principles are very basic and sounded very simple. The real challenge is to be able to stick to it persistently. That is make or break for anyone.

Thursday, January 07, 2010

Changre Your Attitude and Emotions To Advance

Take a look at how countries doing and try to reflect on us. Countries with rich culture and history is not necessarily the richest countries. Countries with rich natural resources are not necessarily rich. Why?

One reasoning is that when you have things come to you easy, you tend to lose them easily. You would not treasure them or appreciate them. On the other hand, many countries with limited natural resources enjoy high standards of living. Then have hardworking and competitive population. Are these caused by the environment? That could be true. But more importantly, the success depends on their attitude.

I am going to share what I learned about how to change our attitude but resetting our brain (mind). Too often, we are paralyzed by our fear and worries. Worries and fears prohibit us from taking positive actions to achieve better life for ourselves (in terms of happiness). Here is a way to get rid of our fears and worries and start to live a life with purpose and focus.

Step One:
Write down a list of "TO DO LIST"
Business or personal, big or small. All to be recorded.

Step Two:
Write down all the things you want in life but has not gotten them yet. Again, this has to be all inclusive. Major or minor goals and dreams.

Step Three:
Write down all the worries you have and next to each worry, write down the worst case scenario if that really happens.

After writing down all the worst case scenarios, you will be able to analyze the worst situation that you can come to. This will be the maximum risk in life that you will face. Next, you can plan a new set of action plans based on what you can take. Write a new action plan and TO DO LIST with the Maximum Risk you will potentially face in mind.

Now you can have peace of mind to do what you set out to do.